Christian teaching. There are no coincidences in life

The universe is complete and perfect. There can be no mistakes. Nothing is accidental. The entire “one song” is amazingly synchronized.

To understand synchronicity and incorporate it into our lives, we must let go of some of our previous ideas, let go of our understanding of coincidence and error, our belief that people are imperfect. The idea that every single event and every single person is interconnected seems too bold to accept. Most of us would rather stick "principle of chance" And "mistakes". We rarely think about the fact that in our perfectly functioning Universe, everything should function perfectly. It is easier to believe that inexplicable coincidences occur without a reason.

The term synchronicity was first used by Carl Jung. He devoted his life to trying to unravel the mysterious threads that were intertwined in a way that we could not decipher in form. He described synchronicity as “the simultaneous occurrence of two events that have a significant but not causal relationship.” He hypothesized that there is a close cooperation between people and events, which seems to be connected with fate and always takes place in the Universe.

The basis of the belief in synchronicity is that each individual life has a purpose and a deeper meaning than what we usually realize. Behind every form there is an intelligence which is amazingly perfect and which works in a synchronous manner. Everything happens for a purpose, and the disparate pieces of life fit perfectly into one picture. By grasping and trusting these thoughts, we will receive daily confirmation of our belief in synchronicity. I am convinced that this phenomenon is omnipresent in my life and that there are no coincidences.

Carl Jung stated:

“At the very moment when we are struggling to maintain feelings of personal autonomy, we are also involved in life processes that are much larger than us, so that, although we are the protagonists in our own lives, we are just extras or squires in some great drama ..."

Or, as we have already found out, that there is only one dream, God's dream, and we are all characters in it, similar to the characters we create for our individual dreams.

Synchronicity in our lives

Over the past few years, I have been asking audiences these questions during my talks: “Have you often thought about someone and received a letter or phone call from that person on the same day?” And “Have you ever run into someone you haven’t thought about for years, shortly after their name came up in some conversation?” Usually everyone raised their hand. Synchronicity, or the connection between seemingly random events and thoughts, is a seemingly universal human experience. This happens to all of us quite regularly and tends to repeat itself in a series of seemingly inexplicable incidents. The fact is that the more we relax and allow ourselves to float freely in the energy system of the Universe, the more often we experience this phenomenon. Eventually we cease to be surprised by it, recognizing it as simply part of the mysterious perfection of our existence.

I bet you have had the experience of knowing absolutely exactly who is calling on the phone before you even pick up the phone. I'm sure you've experienced what they call deja vu, when you know that you have already experienced this very moment and this situation before. I'm also willing to bet that you've found yourself doing something you've never done before and being unable to explain why you were doing it until you were later able to look back and see the reason clearly. Let me give you an example of one such situation in my life.

Several years ago, my publisher offered me a handsome advance for a book that would serve as a sequel to the books "Live to Live"(“Your erroneous zones”) and "To be free"(“Pulling own strings”). I spent several months thinking about the possible content of a new book and, frankly, was at a loss as to which direction to go. One day I was sitting on the ocean shore, thinking about what to write about, when I suddenly felt an urgent need to get up, get dressed and get into the car. This desire to leave the tranquility of the coast at such a time of day and without the need to go somewhere was completely out of character for me. However, I drove off without thinking about where I was going, and about half an hour later I found myself parked at a shopping center "Pompano Fashion Mall". I was perplexed about my behavior. I usually avoid shopping centers and it had never occurred to me to spend a beautiful sunny day there.

I headed straight to the bookstore and went straight to the psychology section. One book stood leaning away from the others, almost falling off the overcrowded bookshelf. I pulled out the book, leafed through it, and headed to the checkout counter to buy it. Then I drove home, returned to my favorite spot on the beach, and read this book cover to cover.

Now I knew exactly what I would write about. My future book, later called "The sky's the limit"(“The sky"s the limit”), outlined in my brain in a few hours. Its subject was self-actualization, or what I called limitless existence. I clearly felt my ability to make this area of ​​\u200b\u200bhuman psychology more understandable and accessible to I knew that I had to write about how to become a person living at the highest levels of life and how to cultivate a sense of self-importance and significance.This became clear to me after that strange incident, which prompted me to read a new book.

The book that actually fell into my hands was an essay by Abraham Maslow "New Horizons for Humanity"(“The farther reaches of human nature”). His previous books had a big influence on me, but this one was the impetus for me to write The Sky's the Limit. When I was at a loss, a dream-like power directed me exactly where I needed to go. And so I dedicated “The Sky’s the Limit” to Dr. Maslow. I feel in some way my mission to continue his work and bring his ideas about the potential greatness of humanity to as many people as possible.

I'm sure you can remember similar supernatural incidents in your life when you did something completely out of character and suddenly understood very clearly why you were doing it. How can we even begin to explain such things? As it turned out, it was the card in the seat belt buckle that led me to my father’s grave. How can a thought suddenly connect you with someone or something that is outwardly so unrelated to you? Word "connectedness" very important for understanding the principle of synchronicity. In some mysterious, incomprehensible way, everything seems interconnected, even if we do not see these connections. In some strange way, the right person or the right chain of events appears just in time to help us cope with some difficult problem. When we understand that everything is connected in some way, even when we don't see those connections, this universal principle of synchronicity becomes more credible and ultimately more accessible to us.

The Universe has a rhythm. When we manage to calm down enough, we can feel ourselves part of this perfect rhythm. I keep coming back to the concept of perfection because many people have a strong belief in imperfection. I believe that our world cannot be less than perfect. The sun, without depleting its source of energy, provides our planet with the exact amount of energy needed to heat it and support life. The earth rotates perfectly around its axis, without being in danger of falling off. The entire Universe has an intelligence that supports it, which I call God, and you can call it whatever you like. The salmon swimming upstream to their spawning grounds are mysteriously perfect. A spider knows how to weave a web without ever going to spider school for a day. The instincts that enable a single song to work perfectly are generated by the intelligence that permeates every form. And we know very little about how it works. However, everything is somehow interconnected, from generation to generation, through all species, and so on ad infinitum. If we began to understand even the slightest degree of this process of interconnection, we would begin to understand the principle of synchronicity, at least enough to believe in this phenomenal intelligence that so perfectly supports all life.

based on materials from the book: Wayne Dyer - “When you believe, then you will see.”

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Nothing in the world happens by chance, writes Noutati. The universe is constantly changing. None of us knows what to expect from tomorrow.

A coin always has two sides - dark and light. Just like life. We learn something every second. Everything that happens to us has a clearly defined purpose.

It depends only on us what this world will be like - good or evil, friendly or hostile.

We ourselves create the world around us - with our thoughts, views, mood, words, worldview.

We are able to see the signs that the Universe sends us. We decide what to do next - to act or to come to terms with the situation in which we find ourselves. We take fate into our own hands or remain bystanders.

It's just our choice. Instead of being angry, envious, suffering, we can change our attitude towards the situation and learn a lesson from it. Anger, despair, fear take away our energy, block access to consciousness, drown out the “voice” of reason.

Imagine that you committed an act that led to unpleasant consequences for you.

Instead of correcting the mistake or making sure it never happens again, you feel angry and remorseful. Over time, these feelings consume you completely and prevent you from thinking rationally.

It’s as if a wall suddenly grew up in front of you, behind which you can’t see the real world. You need to go around it, destroy it, or find a loophole in it, otherwise you will get stuck in one place and begin to degrade.

Only you decide how to react to this or that situation.

Everything that happens in life has a specific purpose - to teach you something: patience, selflessness, mercy, organization, etc. Nobody can make you unhappy. Only you can decide whether to be a victim or the master of fate.

Everything that happens to us is a consequence of our actions. There are no leaps and no accidents in life, everything has its own reason - every thought, every feeling and every action comes from the past and affects the future.

This past and future are hidden from us; we look at life as a mystery, not suspecting that we have created it ourselves. Therefore, the phenomena of our life appear, as if by chance, before us from the abyss of the unknown.

Stop and think about what brought you to the point where you are now. When you understand this, life will no longer seem like a series of trials and endless suffering. You realize that you yourself are the creator of the reality in which you live.

Learn to make decisions correctly. Don't do it in anger, when you're sad or in a desperate situation.

Despair is not the best advisor. Stop regretting what you did, switch to the present.

Calm your mind, stop the flow of thoughts, get rid of fears, look at the situation calmly and without unnecessary emotions, analyze it soberly. And understanding will come to you.

Life only gives you challenges if you are willing to face them. Surely you have already gained experience that will help you solve the problem that has arisen. But anger, despair, fear do not allow you to look at things soberly and objectively assess the situation.

Don't waste time and energy on negative emotions, fear is in your head. Every obstacle overcome is another lesson learned.

Everything that happens to you is necessary for the development of your soul. Everything has a clearly defined purpose. There is nothing random in life.

Do you agree with this conclusion? Do you believe that there is nothing random in a person’s life?

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There are no accidents or coincidences in this world - everything is natural. And there is nothing that is not connected with the Almighty, you just need to feel this connection, and when you feel it, then life will become beautiful. And when we say something about the sublime, about the spiritual, about God, then we say it first of all for ourselves.

Everything around is a performance for us. Everything here is very complex, but at the same time interesting. And life ceases to be empty.

Our suffering means stinginess of heart, real life is giving, the occupation of the soul is to serve. And we don’t want to give, but we want to take, we want our little happiness for ourselves, maximum for our loved ones - expanded egoism, but we can do more. We have no gratitude for the mercy we receive.

Accident, coincidence or pattern?

After all, if we travel around the world and see how people live, we will understand that we are in heavenly conditions.

People who help others solve problems immediately forget about their own because:

1) they don’t care about it,

2) our problems are solved automatically (this is the law),

3) because, seeing how others suffer, you begin to understand that everything is fine with you!

All that is given to us is mercy, all this is given to us by the Creator, who makes sure that we are in the best conditions in terms of our salvation - all the sages talk about this. But we cannot understand this because of our stinginess, limitations, selfishness, sin, and impurity of the heart. In the end, we just have to cleanse ourselves and look at the world with happy eyes!

There are situations when a person takes care of himself with the help of various practices, techniques, etc., gains success, life, in general, gets better, but troubles continue to appear in his life every now and then. Why?

There are no coincidences in life

There are no coincidences in life! That's what we'll talk about. The topic is quite extensive, so here I will try to briefly provide food for thought, and more detailed information can be gleaned from other sources.

Let's start with the fact that NOTHING IS A CHANCE. This world is structured in a certain way, and there are certain Higher Laws to which everything that happens is subject. Ignorance, misunderstanding or rejection of these laws does not invalidate them.

We can say that Life is built on the principle of a school, where we must learn wisdom: to know the laws of life and live in accordance with them in order to enjoy every moment of life. It is important to understand that the troubles that happen to us are not a punishment from God, (the Highest Forces, etc.), but the result of our violation of these very Divine laws.

In other words, “I myself was the cause of this trouble.” By accepting this as a fact (I am responsible for what happens to me), you create the opportunity for spiritual growth: learning, correcting your mistakes and achieving the highest goal - happiness.

Accidents are not random

Accidents are not accidental. What you put out is what you receive. What goes around comes around. Only what you do towards others comes back to you. Folk wisdom. The golden rule from Buddhism - “Do not do to others what you do not wish for yourself” - is built on the understanding of this.

The Higher Laws are absolutely fair and harmonious. You are the reason for what is happening to you. You must understand what it is like to do/have done to others. This is the only way you can learn wisdom and receive a certificate - happiness. Being offended by a person who creates trouble for you is a mistake that leads to a strengthening of your own ego, which feeds on negativity. In this case, spiritual growth is impossible or inhibited.

The other person through whom the trouble came is not the source of this trouble, but only its conductor. If this person had not existed, there would have been another, but the situation would have turned out the same. You need to learn a lesson from troubles. Unless, of course, we want to step on the same rake again and again.

This is no accident or coincidence

If the same trouble comes into your life again and again, then this is not an accident or a coincidence, it indicates that you are stepping on the same rake again. Life is trying to teach you something, but you still don’t learn and don’t learn. This can go far and become more painful each time.

How to learn a lesson from an unpleasant situation

The first step is to accept the situation as it is. Much has already been said about this, but for this context here is another aspect of acceptance: “I myself attracted this into my life - with thoughts, words and actions.” It is a position of responsibility that opens the door to wisdom. There is no other path to wisdom. Shifting responsibility to other people, God, etc. – this is the path to degradation, not spiritual growth.

The second step is discovering your mistake. This requires careful analysis. You may not immediately remember (not understand, not realize) what actions of yours caused this trouble (the ego will try to take advantage of this factor to stop analyzing the situation).

But just remember that there are no coincidences. Think about what aspect of selfishness is life pointing to you through this person or situation? What negative or destructive character trait of another causes you to react? Have you exhibited this ego aspect towards someone? If something about someone else makes you feel bad, it means you have it too. We need to discover what it is.

The third step is to eradicate the identified ego aspect. This can be done in various ways. In life, this aspect of the ego can simply be observed and realized, and gradually it will disappear. You can also purposefully show the opposite of this aspect (a positive character trait) in life. Try different options.

Addition to the second step. The outer world is a reflection of the inner world. Tell me how you see the world and I will tell you how you are. We see in others only what is in ourselves. Tell me who your friends are and I will tell you who you are. Etc. Trying to change someone else (without changing yourself) is a manifestation of the ego, and, as a rule, this approach does not work. Change yourself and others will change. If you want to change your life for the better, start with yourself.

The source of fatigue is not in the body, but in the mind. You can do much more than you think.

Relying only on yourself is a great way to stop being disappointed in people and live in a great mood.

Life gives us a lot of chances, but, more often than not, we are just too lazy to swim.

All people are two-faced. The first personality is kind, sincere, sympathetic. The second appears when the first is abused.

Hell? Unfortunately, it doesn't exist. There is only Heaven and... Earth.

The most important thing in communication is to hear what was not said. Peter Drucker

What began as a lie must end as a lie; this is the law of nature. Fedor Dostoevsky

Words are like keys. With the right choice, you can open any soul and close any mouth.

To respect or not to respect a person is your choice. Being respectful is your upbringing.

The rule of a hot air balloon is to throw out everything you don't need to gain height.

We don't make mistakes about people, we just rush to see them as we want them to be.

You can't lose what doesn't exist. You cannot destroy what is not built. You can only dispel the illusion of what seems real.

To achieve complete harmony in life, you need to swap just two things: at 7 am you should want to eat, and at 1 am you should want to sleep.

Music is life. As long as it sounds, nothing dies forever. A musician, performing music, lives with memories as if they were real events.

I will never deceive someone who sincerely trusts me. But I won’t prove the truth to anyone who doesn’t believe me.

If you don't make mistakes, it means you're solving problems that are too simple. And this is a big mistake.

There is nothing random in life, and everything that happens to us happens at the right time and in the right place.

If I do exactly the things that people expect from me, I will fall into their slavery.

Time is an amazing phenomenon. There is so little of it when you are late and so much of it when you are waiting.

What you think is what you feel. What you feel is what you emit. What you emit is what you receive.

There is no better way to take revenge than to erase your memory. Janusz Leon Wisniewski

Treat everyone with kindness and respect, even those who are rude to you. Not because they are worthy people, but because you are a worthy person. (Confucius)

Family is what is worth waking up for every day, breathing every second, and praying to God every moment to protect and protect them.

There will always be people who will hurt you. You need to continue to trust people, just be a little more careful.

Love dies from fatigue, and oblivion buries it.

Otherwise, the words arranged take on a different meaning, otherwise the thoughts arranged make a different impression.

He who wages war on others has not made peace with himself.

By trusting a person unconditionally, you end up getting one of two things: either a person for life, or a lesson for life.

Don't get closer to a person than he allows, and don't let a person get closer than he deserves.

To discover new parts of the world, you need to have the courage to lose sight of old shores.

Don't expect a miracle, create a miracle yourself. And run, run away from pessimists, skeptics, whiners, push them away. They destroy expectation and faith in the miracles of life.

In life, you should strive not to overtake others, but yourself.

There are three golden qualities in a person’s character: patience, a sense of proportion and the ability to remain silent. Sometimes they help in life more than intelligence, talent and beauty.

Learn not to tell anyone anything. Then everything will be fine.

A diamond that falls into the mud still remains a diamond, and dust that rises to the skies remains dust.

Keep your soul light. Against all odds, no matter what. This is the light by which the same bright souls will find you.

People don't always need advice. Sometimes they need a hand to support them. An ear that will listen and a heart that will understand.

It is not the strongest or the smartest who survive, but the one who best adapts to change.

If there are rumors about you, you are a person. Remember: never discuss or envy bad things. They envy the best, discuss the best.

Give a person a purpose to live for, and he can survive in any situation.

Never criticize another person's actions if you don't know why he did them. Perhaps, under the same circumstances, you would have done the same.

Conscience usually torments those who are not guilty. Erich Maria Remarque

Learn to say “thank you” to what is left behind. It certainly taught us something important.

You are silent, but you are no longer understood correctly.

Society often forgives the criminal. But not a dreamer. Oscar Wilde

In our unreliable world, there is nothing more difficult to achieve and fragile than trust.

The past is always with us, waiting to change the present.

The end of lies does not mean the beginning of truth. Frederic Beigbeder

Being offended and indignant is like drinking poison in the hope that it will kill your enemies.

The worst thing is not “it doesn’t work out again.” The worst thing is “I don’t want to try anymore.”

You need to arrange your life until life starts to suit you.

No one in the world will meet you halfway. If you need something, take it yourself, always do only what you decide.

You don't sing a song to get to the last note. The singing itself brings joy. The same goes for life. The joy is in living.

The greatest flaw in life is its eternal incompleteness due to our habit of postponing from day to day. He who finishes his life's work every evening does not need time.

He who has never sworn allegiance will never break it. August von Platen

The one who is able to tame his heart will submit to the whole world. Paulo Coelho

Make your work a life-filled life, not a work-filled life.

Our actions can lift us to the skies and throw us into the deepest abyss. We are the children of our deeds. Victor Hugo.

If you want to achieve your goal, you need to make at least a little progress towards it every day.

When you see an eagle, you see an example of Perfection - so look at the sky more often.

Wanting change is the first step. But the second is to achieve them!

The only difference between a good dinner and life is that sweets are served at the end.

Sometimes the person you don't notice becomes the one you need most.

You can't change the past, but you can stretch yourself and change the future.

A strong person is not the one who is doing well, but the one who is doing well, DESPITE ANYTHING!

Remember the rule. Treat a woman like a person. Then how to a princess. Then as a Greek goddess, and then again as a human.

When you have nothing to lose, you can risk everything...

I hear and forget. I see and remember. I do and understand. Confucius

You can wait if you have something to wait for.

There is no need to think about what life was or will be like. There is no past and there will be no future. Everything happens here and now.

It's not about predicting the future, but about creating it.

Be with those who make you happy.

You need to do the impossible. You need to work hard. And if you succeed, you are positive, you have a ray of hope.

Love lives only when there is respect for each other and freedom. The desire to possess another as a thing is absurd.

Look at what you are thinking about now, this will become your future. Think about good things, about love, success, luck, abundance and joy. And enjoy it in the future.

The only way to survive is to constantly set yourself new challenges.

The fewer expectations in your head, the more surprises there are in life.

Those who do not understand their past are forced to relive it again.

There is sun in every person. Just let it shine. Socrates

I still don’t regret anything, if only because it’s pointless.

I don't like loneliness. I just don’t make unnecessary acquaintances so as not to be disappointed in people again.

Do not promise if you are not sure that you will fulfill your promise, because the pain that you cause to another will sooner or later come back to you.

Those who succeed in this world come and find the circumstances they need. If they cannot find them, then they create them themselves.

It's never too late to set a new goal or find a new dream.

It is not always the one who is to blame who asks for forgiveness. Most often this is done by those who value relationships...

Appreciate those who can see three things in you: the sadness behind the smile, the love behind the anger, and the reason for your silence.

Any problem ceases to be a problem with the right attitude.

Nobody can say anything about you. Whatever people say, they are talking about themselves.

Always choose the most difficult path - you will not meet competitors on it.

It doesn't matter that you walk slowly... the main thing is don't stop.

If you decide to act, close the door to doubt. Friedrich Nietzsche

People most often use the word “nothing” in order to hide behind it a very important “something”.

You become melancholic when you think about life, and you become cynical when you see what most people make of it. Remarque

Don’t forget that position comes from the word “duty,” work comes from the word “slave,” and dismissal comes from the word “will.”

The genius himself admitted, no less,
His relatives (wouldn’t he know)
Sadly saying: "Failure,
For a genius - his own mother! "*

Teacher, everything is clear, it seems;
Genius is fully endowed with everything...
Error, you know, in Nature itself?(?)
She created both!”

Reacted instantly
Who listened for a long time and was silent.
“Completely wrong,
There is nothing! - the answer sounded -

I'll give you an example:
Kohl...

There is nothing more beautiful than a rose
Whose petals I gently stroke.
Now we are not afraid of frosts,
Which we were so afraid of.
The flower is beautiful, perfect
Against the background of my window
Filled with sunshine. Undoubtedly
April spring has arrived.
In the bright sun, me and the rose
Warmed up like two sisters.
Hidden tears dream
It's been a long time since I found freedom...
My dear flower! My favorite!
Answer my funny question:
How could you become so beautiful
Among the same wonderful roses?..
You weren't jealous, you weren't angry
When looking at...

There is nothing separate from God
No thought, no breath, no way...
Everyone is strictly bound by flesh, blood, and spirit
With the Great Father, to go with Him.
Everything is under control, it is known in advance,
In the slightest, everything is meaningful by the Father,
Everything is perfect, precise, endless,
Everything develops, led by the Creator.
Nothing sleeps, everything is devoid of peace,
Everything is directed by the Illusion of the Father,
Everything is self-creating, everything is in battle,
And in that battle there is eternally no end.
Illusions are real because they are decay
They melt souls into strength,
Which...

No, nothing will happen again
And life is earthly grace.
And I keep dreaming about you,
As if promising to wait.

Come and sit down next to the edge,
Give me a gentle brown look,
In which you ask for forgiveness
Over the years of pain and loss...

I wake up in sweat - How wild!
And I’ll get up and nervously light a cigarette:
- Why are you asking for forgiveness?
Because I love you?

No answer. In a cozy silence
The daughter is sleeping and the wife is snoring.
I am alone in this world,
Yes, there’s still the moon in the window.

In its dank pale light...

There's nothing stupider than visiting
In places connected with departed love.
Pain to match the fanatic executioners,
Will give free rein to torture-verbosity.

And you scream, scream, scream. Not out loud
Silently, unnoticed by passersby.
The face is whiter than chalk, the look is extinguished -
You stand like a statue.

Clinging to a tree so as not to fall,
You whisper lifelessly, colorlessly and dully:
“We enjoyed the memories to our heart's content.
Why did you come here? Because I knew it was stupid.”